Friday, May 14, 2010


My doctor is setting up a referral to a neurosurgeon, but I am hoping to see the plastic surgeon first. My back is in horrible pain today, but some of it is due to the stress. My sisters came here when I wasn't here, but called me at the doctor's office to let me know that they are moving my parnoid, wife abuser and possibly child molester brother in here. I am going to do all I can to stop that even if it means bringing up the past when he did what he did to me, then knocked me down from behind with my 6 week old baby in my arms. Mom and dad should have gotten him help a long time ago. He has beaten every woman he was married to ---5 in all and I am deathly afraid of him. They told me to stop calling or contact them, yet they can't seem to stop and keep upsetting me. It's at the point where I am ready just to give up. I have never been a fighter so I don't know how to go about doing this.

Anyway, I'll probably be having my surgery this summer and I will let everyone know. If you don't see me here for a few days, it's because I am resting or at least trying to  and I have some heavy praying to do. I know God is listening, but I need help more than ever. It's not easy praying for myself  because it's always prayers for others, so this is new to me. Love and hugs, Pat


Denise said...

What can I do to help? Do you mean they are moving him into your house? Is it your house? If so then you have rights...

let me know if there is anything I can do..... I can always pray and I am good at finding agencies to help with this type of thing.... Stand up for your rights! God did not make you a door mat!

The Urban Chic said...

Denise it's a long story, but we inherited our parents house and I am disabled. My brother gets nothing because he owes the estate $60,000 and we will never see a dime and now they want to move him in with me. He just got out of jail because he pistol whipped his wife. I am deathly afraid of him and if I move out, I will lose my little disability check. I am going to call the sheriff's office to see if there is anything I can do. Thanks for offering to help---prayers are what I need the most right now. I don't want to move back in with my husband because he won't go to therapy for his temper. Love,hugs,and blessings, Pat