Friday, May 14, 2010

Neurosurgeon

My doctor is setting up a referral to a neurosurgeon, but I am hoping to see the plastic surgeon first. My back is in horrible pain today, but some of it is due to the stress. My sisters came here when I wasn't here, but called me at the doctor's office to let me know that they are moving my parnoid, wife abuser and possibly child molester brother in here. I am going to do all I can to stop that even if it means bringing up the past when he did what he did to me, then knocked me down from behind with my 6 week old baby in my arms. Mom and dad should have gotten him help a long time ago. He has beaten every woman he was married to ---5 in all and I am deathly afraid of him. They told me to stop calling or contact them, yet they can't seem to stop and keep upsetting me. It's at the point where I am ready just to give up. I have never been a fighter so I don't know how to go about doing this.

Anyway, I'll probably be having my surgery this summer and I will let everyone know. If you don't see me here for a few days, it's because I am resting or at least trying to  and I have some heavy praying to do. I know God is listening, but I need help more than ever. It's not easy praying for myself  because it's always prayers for others, so this is new to me. Love and hugs, Pat

2 comments:

Denise said...

What can I do to help? Do you mean they are moving him into your house? Is it your house? If so then you have rights...

let me know if there is anything I can do..... I can always pray and I am good at finding agencies to help with this type of thing.... Stand up for your rights! God did not make you a door mat!

The Urban Chic said...

Denise it's a long story, but we inherited our parents house and I am disabled. My brother gets nothing because he owes the estate $60,000 and we will never see a dime and now they want to move him in with me. He just got out of jail because he pistol whipped his wife. I am deathly afraid of him and if I move out, I will lose my little disability check. I am going to call the sheriff's office to see if there is anything I can do. Thanks for offering to help---prayers are what I need the most right now. I don't want to move back in with my husband because he won't go to therapy for his temper. Love,hugs,and blessings, Pat